Buyers Beware of Buying the Deal and not the Residence . . .

At the recent Luxury Real Estate conference I attended in Las Vegas many of the top brokers mentioned their concern that some buyers are so motivated by the deal that they are missing purchasing their first choice residence in the pursuit of the best price!

Here in Fort Lauderdale, the appetite for getting “the best deal” is obviously a priority. All good real estate brokers understand this motivation and are looking to obtain the best terms for their client. However, there is a cautionary note to all buyers looking to take advantage of great prices and a wide selection of inventory. Buyers should ensure that they are truly comparing apples with apples, especially in terms of newer construction, hurricane preparedness, elevators, standard of custom finishes, square footage, waterfront footage, etc. Secondly, negotiate on their first choice to the fullest extent. There is nothing more frustrating as a buyer than to finally find their favorite selection, make one offer which is rejected by the seller, and not proceed with negotiations through the counter process.

Buyers may be disappointed that their first or even second offer is rejected. I encourage buyers to keep on negotiating to find a “meeting of the minds” on their first choice residence. Otherwise, they may be disappointed to learn a couple of months down the road that some other lucky buyer secured the price they were ultimately prepared to pay. Negotiating today requires patience and tenacity. Buyers should ensure they work with their broker as a team on this level and be honest in their expectations.

The difference between buyers buying their dream residence, a home they envisage living in for many years that suites their lifestyle, as opposed to just “getting the best deal” may end up amounting to less money in reality! The temptation to buy another residence which is not quite so appealing, just because it is a good deal is great, but act in haste and repent in leisure (and high closing costs to move). Long term, it is important not to have post-purchase regrets just because clients decided not to make that final push on their first choice.

Another common mistake is just to consider short sales. There is an amazing inventory of luxury residences which were purchased before the height of the market and are priced to sell. These sellers have more equity (thus more bargaining power), may offer seller financing and have often beautifully maintained the residence. Please ensure that buyers are not so blinded by the short sale deal that they overlook a good sector of the market.

The serious sellers who are “in the market” as opposed to just “on the market” will negotiate with ready, willing and able buyers to achieve a fabulous deal and purchase a residence that genuinely excites them. I'm curious to hear from both buyers and agents with their experiences and advice on buying the residence and not the deal.

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Submitted by on May 7, 2009 - 9:46am.

Hi Julie...thanks for keeping to buyer focus on purchasing a home they are excited about instead of getting excited about the deal. The feeding frenzy for "deals" reminds me of the feeding frenzy when it was a sellers market - buy any house you can because you "won" the multiple offer game. Until next time...fair winds!

 
Submitted by on May 7, 2009 - 9:46am.

Julie,
This is a very insightful article. Especially given that I heard the same sentiment expressed last week at the Luxury Real Estate conference. However in Denver we haven't quite seen that feeding frenzy yet.

Jon Larrance
Vice President
Perry & Co.
@perryandco

 
Submitted by on May 7, 2009 - 9:47am.

Hi Julie...thanks for keeping to buyer focus on purchasing a home they are excited about instead of getting excited about the deal. The feeding frenzy for "deals" reminds me of the feeding frenzy when it was a sellers market - buy any house you can because you "won" the multiple offer game. Until next time...fair winds!

 
Submitted by on May 7, 2009 - 9:47am.

Hi Julie...thanks for keeping to buyer focus on purchasing a home they are excited about instead of getting excited about the deal. The feeding frenzy for "deals" reminds me of the feeding frenzy when it was a sellers market - buy any house you can because you "won" the multiple offer game. Until next time...fair winds!

 
Submitted by Kaye Thomas on May 7, 2009 - 11:42am.

Julie,
I'm seeing this in my area of Manhattan Beach CA. Buyers are so fixed on a specific price that many are walking away from a home they love. The big fear seems to be that prices might drop after they buy.

Usually those who suffer from this fear are very savvy investors who don't want to seem foolish in the eyes of friends/colleagues by buying and then having prices drop another 10%.

 
Submitted by Carmen Multhauf on May 7, 2009 - 4:21pm.

Kaye,
Lenders are also concerned about prices continuing to drop. This is reflected in the requirements for higher downpayments. We need the confidence of a "floor" on prices.

Carmen Multhauf
Generational Housing Specialist Council

 
Submitted by Kaye Thomas on May 7, 2009 - 6:18pm.

Carmen,

You are right of course, but who knows when that floor will hit. If the stock market is an indicator real estate prices could be bouncing around for a long time

Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West
Manhattan Beach CA

 
Submitted by on May 8, 2009 - 7:03am.

40 years ago, when Lylene & I bought our first home, the emphasis was on the "Home" not the "Deal". The "Home" was the place our parnets threw the anchor out, the "Home" was where Lylene & I threw the anchor out & that was where we were going to stay. Of course 40 years ago, people stayed in their jobs many times for a life time, many stayed in their marriages & as a result they stayed in their "Homes" as well. Fast forward to 2009 - well it just ain't that way any more. Many of the people we see are as concerned with re-sale as they are with suitability. Until we become more grounded in our lives, I don't see that changing anytime soon.

Rich Johnson
360-319-3267
http://www.johnsonteamrealestate.com
http://www.johnsonteamrealestate.com/blog/

 
Submitted by David Lorti on May 8, 2009 - 7:24am.

Rich Johnson's comment above is telling. I always emphasize with my buyers that it is about getting the right home for them.

Although impulse buying usually gets people into trouble, I believe that the first impulse someone has when they walk into a home where they love it is the right impulse. That is likely the right home for them. Of course, a second visit is always a good idea (emotion and logic).

Given our high inventory here, I tell buyers to take their time to find the right home for them. Because if they love their home, they will be inclined to stay in it a long time.

And although I'm in the business to help people buy and sell homes, I do not believe that people should be moving around that much - it's financially costly in the long-term to do so.

 
Submitted by on May 8, 2009 - 9:03am.

You all have offered wonderful insights. It is so true that we become emotionally invested in helping our clients find the home they love. It's difficult to see them make the wrong choice--especially if they are concerned about their peer's opinions!

It will be a happy day when the real estate floor becomes stable again.

And Rich, wouldn't it be wonderful if people started trusting their "anchor" impulses once more?

Thank you all for your great feedback. Hope your summer is excellent!

 
Submitted by on May 8, 2009 - 1:09pm.

Julie,

I wish I had faith that it could happen. This Country would be a far better place in my opinion if it could.

Rich Johnson
360-319-3267
http://www.johnsonteamrealestate.com
http://www.johnsonteamrealestate.com/blog/

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