Tips on holding title to family cabin

How to avoid disagreement over use, maintenance, selling

We have been parents for 31 years and dragged children through three primary residences. All of the homes had terrific amenities: views, schools, nearby playgrounds and neighborhood pals.

The four kids are grown and gone now, but if you could find them (I am rarely able to do so) and ask where their fondest memories took place, all would balk at those homes and choose the lake cabin we have shared with another family.