Everyone should be continuously learning and honing their craft, especially in the ever-changing landscape of real estate. Here are the all-time best real estate and sales books according to Jay Thompson.

Jay Thompson is a former brokerage owner who spent over six years working for Zillow Group. He retired in August 2018 but can’t seem to leave the real estate industry behind. His weekly Inman column publishes every Wednesday.

Compiling any “best of” list is hard, and a list of best books is particularly difficult. There is no shortage of books related to real estate and sales. Some are brilliant, some not-so-swift. How does one even define “best” when it comes to books? 

If you’re looking for entertainment, you’re probably not going to find it in a real estate- or sales-related book. (Not that there’s anything wrong with making a real estate book entertaining, it’s just that most authors don’t.) If you think you’re going to read a book and double your transactions a week after you finish, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. It just doesn’t work that way. 

For me, a great real estate or sales book makes me think. It makes me look deeper into my business practices and helps me analyze what I need to do to be more successful, not just in business but also in life. 

A great book needs to be well-written. The grammar nerd in me just can’t wade through lousy sentence structure and ditto with editing. It never ceases to amaze me how some books, typically self-published books, which many real estate books are, are littered with typos. I’m the king of typos, but they still drive me insane.

There’s nothing wrong with self-publishing, but please, pay someone to copy edit your work before sending it off to the internet.  

What follows is what I consider the best real estate and sales books of all time. Full disclosure, I have read most, but not all, of these books. I included the ones I haven’t read based on recommendations from (several) industry professionals, folks I know and trust.

It’s not an all-inclusive list, and no “best of” list will come close to appeasing everyone. 

As a real estate professional, an entrepreneur, a small business owner, you should be continuously learning and honing your craft. 

You are not in this alone. There are a plethora of authors out there willing to help in your ongoing quest for knowledge. Reading is one of the best ways to learn. 

If you think you don’t have time to read, I suggest a couple of things:

  1. Work on life balance: Spending 24-hours a day grinding through a real estate career isn’t healthy.
  2. Listen to audiobooks: I’m not the biggest fan of audio — I find it too easy to get distracted, and I would rather focus on my reading. But audiobooks are a great way to consume content if you’re in a time crunch. 

The greatest real estate and sales books of all time, in my humble opinion 

Without further ado, here’s my list of the 10+ greatest real estate and sales books: 

Credit: Amazon

How to Win Friends and Influence People

By Dale Carnegie

It might seem strange to recommend a book first published in 1936, but there’s a reason this book has sold 15 million copies. It’s more than just a “sales book.” It’s a life book. 

When I was asking for opinions for this column, Chris Sauerzopf, CEO of SafeWire, summed up How to Win Friends perfectly. “I read that in college, and it completely shifted the direction of my thinking, and more importantly, my life. It completely shifted how I understood people and their motivation.”


Credit: Amazon

The Millionaire Real Estate Agent

By Gary Keller

Perennial chart-topper for any real estate-related book, Keller crafted what many consider the instruction manual for real estate agents. Listen, I might not be the biggest fan of Gary Keller, but there is zero question that “MREA” has guided and changed many careers, mine included.  


Credit: Amazon

Ninja Selling: Subtle Skills. Big Results

By Larry Kendall

Truly brilliant. Larry Kendall lays out a path for change almost every agent needs — shifting your approach from chasing clients to attracting clients.  




Credit: Amazon

The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich

By Timothy Ferriss

I know, I know. No one in real estate is going to live anywhere working four hours a week. But for the sake of your sanity and your health, you need some balance in your life. 

You can be successful and spend less time in the grind by understanding and focusing on income-producing activities and offloading busy work.  


Credit: Amazon

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion

By Robert Cialdini

Real estate is all about influence and persuasion. Cialdini nails it and backs it up with evidence-based, peer-reviewed scientific research. Science for the win.  




Credit: Amazon

#GetSocialSmart: How to Hone Your Social Media Strategy 

By Katie Lance

Love it or hate it, social media isn’t going away. Many agents flail about in the social space, spending excessive time and effort chasing the elusive lead. Katie Lance shows you how.  


Bonus tip: Tune in for her monthly column right here on Inman.


Credit: Amazon

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*CK: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

By Mark Manson

Winner — best title ever (IMHO). Although not technically a sales book, Manson writes (quite well, and yes, with some profanity) about how to improve your life. Tons of lessons and perspectives here. 



Credit: Amazon

The Conversion Code: Capture Internet Leads, Create Quality Appointments, Close More Sales

By Chris Smith

Drop into any real estate Facebook group, and you’ll see countless inquiries and discussions about how to generate prospects. 

You know what no one ever talks about? How to convert those prospects to clients. Most agents don’t fail at lead generation. They fail at conversion. Read this book.  


Credit: Amazon

Disruptors, Discounters, and Doubters: A Guide for the Client-Oriented Future of the Real Estate Industry and How to be a Great Real Estate Agent: The Principles of Client-Oriented Real Estate (CORE) 

By Joe Rand

A Joe Rand book needed to be on this list. I couldn’t decide which one, so you get a two-for-one. Rand is a great writer (and human) who clearly understands real estate life. 

Bonus tip: Listen to the “Randing and Raving” episodes on the Real Estate Sessions podcast. Rand and Bill Risser kill it with quick quips of pertinent, funny banter. 

Bonus tip 2: Listen to all episodes of this podcast.  


Credit: Amazon

Fanatical Prospecting: The Ultimate Guide to Opening Sales Conversations and Filling the Pipeline by Leveraging Social Selling, Telephone, Email, Text, and Cold Calling 

By Jeb Blount

This book is the only one listed that I haven’t personally read (honestly, probably because of the “cold calling” part of the title, something I’m not personally a fan of). But it was recommended by too many people whom I greatly respect to exclude.

From the Amazon description:

“The brutal fact is the number one reason for failure in sales is an empty pipe and the root cause of an empty pipeline is the failure to consistently prospect. By ignoring the muscle of prospecting, many otherwise competent salespeople and sales organizations consistently underperform.”

Blount is not wrong. Real estate sales is fundamentally a prospecting business. You wake up every day effectively unemployed. An empty pipeline equals an empty checking account. 


There are 10-plus books and a few bonus tips for you. Want more? You should read the book-related articles Inman contributor Brandon Doyle pens pretty much annually:

This column is my last for a month. During August, I’ll be sailing from Honolulu to the Palmyra coral atoll (and back). One thousand two hundred miles south of Honolulu, Palmyra is literally in the middle of the Pacific Ocean. No cell phone, no internet, just sea, sun and fun. Look for my column again in September!

Jay Thompson is a real estate veteran and retiree living in the Texas Coastal Bend, as well as the one spinning the wheels at Now Pondering. Follow him on FacebookInstagram, and Twitter. He holds an active Arizona broker’s license with eXp Realty. “Retired but not dead,” Jay speaks around the world on many things real estate.

Show Comments Hide Comments


Sign up for Inman’s Morning Headlines
What you need to know to start your day with all the latest industry developments
By submitting your email address, you agree to receive marketing emails from Inman.
Thank you for subscribing to Morning Headlines.
Back to top
Only 3 days left to register for Inman Connect Las Vegas before prices go up! Don't miss the premier event for real estate pros.Register Now ×
Limited Time Offer: Get 1 year of Inman Select for $199SUBSCRIBE×
Log in
If you created your account with Google or Facebook
Don't have an account?
Forgot your password?
No Problem

Simply enter the email address you used to create your account and click "Reset Password". You will receive additional instructions via email.

Forgot your username? If so please contact customer support at (510) 658-9252

Password Reset Confirmation

Password Reset Instructions have been sent to

Subscribe to The Weekender
Get the week's leading headlines delivered straight to your inbox.
Top headlines from around the real estate industry. Breaking news as it happens.
15 stories covering tech, special reports, video and opinion.
Unique features from hacker profiles to portal watch and video interviews.
Unique features from hacker profiles to portal watch and video interviews.
It looks like you’re already a Select Member!
To subscribe to exclusive newsletters, visit your email preferences in the account settings.
Up-to-the-minute news and interviews in your inbox, ticket discounts for Inman events and more
1-Step CheckoutPay with a credit card
By continuing, you agree to Inman’s Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

You will be charged . Your subscription will automatically renew for on . For more details on our payment terms and how to cancel, click here.

Interested in a group subscription?
Finish setting up your subscription